When someone says: ”I Love You”, what should we say if we don’t?

When someone says: ”I Love You”, what should we say if we don’t?

When someone tells you I love you, but you do not have the same feeling to that person, you do not know what to say as an answer. Perhaps it would be better to discuss the future of the relationship in such a situation with that person, but you should not put yourself under pressure.

When someone tells you I love you, but you have the same feeling to that person, you do not know what to say as an answer. Perhaps it would be better to discuss the future of the relationship in such a situation with that person, but you should not put yourself under pressure.

If you do not have a mutual reaction or you don’t have the same feeling to him/her, then responding to his/her expressive interest, will become a big challenge.

Here are some recommendations for handling such a situation.

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Focus on probabilities if you think that one day you will love him/her.

In a relationship, the parties won’t become interested in each other at the same speed. If the other party comes to a point which showing you, his/her feelings, but you still need more time, sit and think with yourself how important this person is for you.

Express the depth of your feelings towards him/her. For instance, say how much, this person is the cause of your happiness and adds worth in your life.

By focusing on the positive emotions that you have about him/her, accepting that you do not say “I love you” is easier for him/her.

If you can not tell the sentence of I love you, it’s better to explain the progress of the emotional relationship you have with him/her. This gives this person the sense of security that both of you are in the same way.

If you think you won’t love him/her then at all, it is better to talk about the relationship with each other.

If you feel that you are less likely to be interested in him/her, you should be honest with him/her.

When you tell this person that you do not like him/her, the result of the relationship will become clear whether it should be continued or not. In such situations, you should talk about the future of the relationship with each other.

If you do not like him/her at all, you should end the relationship

If you come to the conclusion that you do not like this person at all and you’ve reached the end of this relation, then the relationship is in a difficult situation.

When the feeling lost, it’s impossible to continue to the relationship, and it is very tragic for someone who has lost his passion.

Sometimes you may love this person, but you feel you’re not in love with him/her anymore. In such situations, you should think with yourself whether you can keep the relationship safe or that it is better to end it.

If that person reacts to your negative answer, this is a sign of danger

The feeling of love makes anyone sensitive and vulnerable so you have to anticipate that the other party may feel sad and disappointed. If this person feels that needs to hear the same thing after saying I have to love you, otherwise this person has to end the relationship and look for someone else, this is a sign of danger. Not having the same feeling won’t mean ending a relationship and finding someone else. Aside from all these, if you feel you do not like this person, you should never force yourself for loving someone and say something like I love you.

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